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Tipping at the Reception

Figuring out whom to tip and how much they should get can be a daunting task. While the amount varies depending on where you live, the service you are receiving and the number of your guests, below is a general guideline on who gets what at your reception.

• Maitre d’: 15-20 percent of the reception bill. This is usually split among the waiters and captains, and is less if you also have a club manager.
• Club or Banquet Manager: $100-$300, depending on the number of guests.
• Caterer: 15-20 percent of the food bill. Many times the caterer will include a tip in the final bill. If you’re not sure, just ask. And, you can always provide an additional tip for exceptional service.
• Musicians: $20-$40 dollars per musician. This is not required but can be given for a great performance.
• Wedding Planner: 15-20 percent of fee. Again, not required, but can be given for exceptional service.
• Chauffeurs: 15-20 percent of transportation bill.
• Parking attendants: 50 cents-$1 per car.
• Coatroom and Powder Room attendants: 50 cents-$1 per guest.

Before tipping, check all your contracts to see if gratuities are included. Tips should be placed in an envelope and given to your wedding planner or best man to distribute.

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